Tomorrow I'm headed to Ohio for the funeral of one of the most amazing people I know. I'm not sure when it was that I realized I was very lucky when it comes to my family. Ours is a large family, and the relatively frequent family gatherings were always filled with fun and love and Irene was always at the center of it. She had 7 children, each of whom is an awesome person in their own right. I think being able to create a loving family is a truly unappreciated gift.
I visited her last weekend, she got to spend her final days at home, surrounded by family. While her body failed her, her mind stayed sharp almost to the very end. It felt almost like the Jewish custom of sitting shiva, accept that the person we were mourning and celebrating was still with us. Stories and food were shared, games were played, sympathy given. Irene was ready to go.
It's hard to even imagine how different the world was when she was growing up, to me she was one of my constants, seemingly unflappable through all the change. One of my fond memories will be of her sitting quietly with her Kindle. Thank you grandma for your lessons that family is a gift, that there is strength in kindness, and that one should be ruthless in cards. You will be missed.

http://obits.cleveland.com/obituaries/cleveland/obituary.aspx?n=irene-j-michul-reinke&pid=170514564&fhid=6267
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Date: 8 Apr 2014 04:34 (UTC)thank you Karl
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Date: 10 Apr 2014 01:54 (UTC)What a great woman. I'm glad you got to see her again recently, and that you'll have good memories.