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9 August 2012 13:58My friend group has a case of the Creepy Dude. How do we clear that up?
has been going around Facebook, and I don't really have any comment other than to say that I endorse this message.
I already have people that I won't invite to things because I consider them predators, if there are others I should know about by all means tell me. I want any event that I host to be a safe place, and I have no problem ejecting someone behaving inappropriately. Being silent doesn't help.
On a more personal note, I know I, and for that matter much of my immediate social circle, tend to be rather touchy feely people and will go with a default assumption that cuddles are welcome. If you don't want to be touched please say so, there's nothing wrong with that, we aren't going to kick you out and if I'm making you uncomfortable I'd certainly want to know.
has been going around Facebook, and I don't really have any comment other than to say that I endorse this message.
I already have people that I won't invite to things because I consider them predators, if there are others I should know about by all means tell me. I want any event that I host to be a safe place, and I have no problem ejecting someone behaving inappropriately. Being silent doesn't help.
On a more personal note, I know I, and for that matter much of my immediate social circle, tend to be rather touchy feely people and will go with a default assumption that cuddles are welcome. If you don't want to be touched please say so, there's nothing wrong with that, we aren't going to kick you out and if I'm making you uncomfortable I'd certainly want to know.